Fathers can build new traditions and stronger bonds during the holidays

As the holidays approach, co-parenting families face both challenges and opportunities for connection — especially fathers who live apart from their children.

In Coshocton County, the Coshocton County Fatherhood Initiative and Coshocton County Head Start Inc. are partnering to help fathers stay actively involved and foster nurturing family relationships.

After a separation or family change, new traditions can give children a sense of stability and belonging. Involve your children in planning. Ask what activities they’d like to do with each parent. When kids feel heard and included, they’re more likely to embrace and value these new rituals.

Research shows engaged fathers positively influence their children’s social, emotional and educational development. The holidays offer a chance to strengthen these bonds through planning, communication and new traditions. Experts emphasize planning ahead, being flexible with your co-parent and focusing on connection over material gifts.

Fathers are encouraged to create consistent, meaningful traditions such as the following:

—Weekly game or movie nights.

—Cooking meals or breakfast together.

—Bedtime stories via video calls or “car talks” after school.

—Seasonal outings or volunteer activities together.

—Crafting a yearly ornament or “gratitude ritual.”

Even in the best situations, the holidays can bring stress. However, maintaining a positive attitude can greatly influence how children experience the season. Showing appreciation for a co-parent’s efforts and honoring family traditions fosters a supportive environment.

Ultimately, fatherhood extends beyond the holiday season. Strong relationships are built through everyday involvement, from school events to simple daily check-ins.

For more ideas or upcoming events, visit our Facebook page: Coshocton County Fatherhood Initiative.

This column was written by Amber Manbeck, Coshocton Head Start enrollment/family community partnership manager and Fatherhood Initiative board member.