Column: Don't forget to make memories with your kids

As a dad with limited time because of work and “Honey Do” projects in the home, it always seems your kiddos get slighted for responsibilities that indirectly benefit them: the roof over their heads, food in the refrigerator, clothes on their backs, gas to get them to the activities they should be in and the list goes on. If you are not careful, you miss the multitude of opportunities that present themselves along the way for family time.

October does present some unique opportunities to do a family activity. Gathering for dinner as a family should always be in the mix with no excuses — beyond that, though, a good, old-fashioned walk in the woods.

Clary Gardens is so easily accessible. The crunch of leaves and the smell of the woods are present. A last trip down the river in the canoe or kayak, pumpkin carving, or the backyard pumpkin toss. If money is an issue, rake leaves as a family and jump in the pile when done. Host a Halloween neighborhood party or trick or treat. Tell a scary story and camp out in the backyard.

It takes some thought and energy, but these are the things Tom Hanks was singing about to his mom in the movie “Big.” “Memories, like the corner of my mind, of the way we were,” they just have a way of popping out down the road as a favorite activity, according to your kids. You, maybe not so much, but it is your kids you are investing in.

This column was written by Fatherhood Initiative member Ed Gallagher.