Funeral home brings hope and healing through memorial ornaments

For the third year in a row, the Clark-Kirkland-Barr Funeral Home opened its doors Dec. 10 for its annual ornament decorating event, led by funeral director Joyce Barr.

Barr said the tradition grew from a desire to give families a positive, meaningful experience during a season that can be especially difficult.

“Grief is often so heavy, especially around the holidays, and for some it can be extremely lonely,” Barr said. “We decided that people deserve to have time making something beautiful to honor their loved one, while also providing them an opportunity to spend time with others.”

The first year exceeded expectations, with just under 30 people attending and filling the funeral home with conversation.

“I was shocked and elated by the number of people in attendance,” Barr said. Hosting the event has also taught her small organizational tricks, such as gathering and printing photos ahead of time to help the day run smoothly.

Attendees often share photos of their finished ornaments online, and many express gratitude for the chance to remember their loved ones in a supportive environment.

“I believe this event has given people something to look forward to around the holiday season,” Barr said. “It brings us great joy to know that people can enjoy one another’s company while creating a beautiful memorial ornament.”

Attendance this year was about fifteen people. While lower than in previous years, Barr said winter weather likely played a role. “Although the number wasn’t as high as usual, people still had a great time,” she said. “I am so grateful to the people who were able to make it out.”

Participants craft using clear ornaments in different shapes and textures. They can choose from ribbons, glitter and other decorations to pair with photos of loved ones. Barr also uses her Cricut machine to add names and dates for those who want extra detail.

The funeral home considered keeping a community tree, but Barr ultimately decided each guest should take their ornament home.

“I always try to host the event early enough in December so that people have time to hang their ornaments for the duration of the Christmas season,” she said.

Attendees have included children as young as 6 and adults well into their 80s. This year’s group included three children.

Barr plans to continue the tradition for years to come.

“I am so pleased with the attendance we’ve had in previous years,” she said. “Even if people have already made a memorial ornament before, I hope they will still attend to make an ornament of any kind, enjoy company and some Christmas treats.”

For the home, the annual event has become a celebration of memory, community and the warmth that shared traditions bring during the holiday season.